Jealousy Lesson 01

Jealousy Lesson 01

According to me Jealousy is a feeling, that occurs when you are unsatisfied and unconfident about yourself.

What is Jealousy ?  

There is no any simple explanation for that,

• Mainly Jealousy is a feeling.
• It just come and go without any age limit.
• Everyone on earth affect by this feeling at least one time.
• This feeling is coming with unsatisfactory and unconfident about yourself.
• This feeling can be increase, by others that can perform well than you.
• Easily controllable. 

Why is Jealousy ?

Mainly jealousy is a feeling to encourage you for a good future. As I discussed earlier, this feeling can be increase by others, who can perform well than you. This feeling directly affects to your mind and it will encourage your mind to perform well. So because of your performing, there will be a good competition between you and others. So because of that competition and the Jealousy , day by day you will become good and the best by improving your working ability.

Normally the feeling jealousy doesn't come for bad things. If your competitor is doing good thing, and if he is performing well at his work, then you will become jealousy with him. That is normal for all human kind.

Did you ever felt jealousy with a rapist or a robber ? , To perform well than him with his work?

If your answer is yes, then it means you must have a problem with you'r mind, because it is not possible in real life. So jealousy is an innocent feeling, and it is always up to your conscience.

Am I in Jealousy ?(How to Know)

When you feel jealous with others, You will experience at least one of the feeling listed below.

• You will be sweating.
• Your hart rate will increase (Just like when you have intercourse). 
• Your heart will feel like electrified.
• Your deep breathing capacity will increase.
• You can't watch your competitor directly.
• You will try to hide from you'r competitor's direct eye contact.
• You can't smile with you'r competitor ( unlike the feeling of anger), So you try to give a fake smile to him.
• You don't like to hear your competitor's success stories from others.  

Aren't there any cons of having Jealousy ?

Actually being jealous is somewhat good for your personal improvement, but if you go outside the limit, then is will be the worst thing of your life.

There are many cons of going outside of the limit of Jealousy. They are,

• You will be suffering from tension in the whole day by thinking how to defeat your competitors, and it will lead to hyper tension or to hypo tension.
• Your tension will lead to gastric, high blood pressure and some serious mind problems.
• You will loos your close friends and others.
• You will forget your all day to day activities, and you will become a looser in your own life

So can I eliminate the Jealousy ?

No, You can't eliminate the jealousy, But you can easily control it as I mentioned before.  
To control jealousy, you can do the following.

• Always thoroughly believe in yourself.
• Always try to be satisfy with the things that you have now.
• Always try to be confident in your self.
• Always thoroughly believe in your religion - Trust that the ultimate power of your religion will do any thing to keep you good in all sides. 
• If these things not work, then    

1. Try to believe in the destiny.
2. Try to Don't care about others things.

Finally -

Don't hate people who are jealous of you, but respect there jealousy. They are the ones who thinks you're better than them.  

!This post is my opinion only and free for any arguments! 

Your Arguments will make me up
Thank You.

I will come with Jealousy Lesson 02 Soon.........